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Monday, October 09, 2006

Men get the babyhunger too.

Went out to breakfast with some guy friends this morning.

D: Since when did the undergraduates start looking too young to be hott?
C: And when did the young moms at the park start looking so good?
D,C,S: Mmmmm. Hot moms.

I was so damn proud of them.

10 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

It might just be that the men are getting older. Or it's also possible that women are remaining physically attractive for longer these days. I mean, it wasn't all that long ago when the thought of a woman in, say, her fifties conjured up thoughts of a matronly type in an old fashioned print dress and her iron-grey hair in a bun - think of Mrs. Wilson from Dennis the Menace. Now, when I think of a woman past 50 I think of a woman who's still reasonably hot and shapely, who'd look fine in a slinky dress or bathing suit or even, forgive me, nothing at all. Could this reflect a real change in the way post-50 women appear? Or is it just that I'm getting disturbingly close to that age myself? I haven't a clue.

Peter
Iron Rails & Iron Weights

8:45 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I've got it too. But, I'm ascribing it to the fact that I've found a woman who I think would be an awesome partner and my genes really like her.

I get these mental images of her breast feeding, or how totally hot she'll look pregnant. *sigh* And I talk about walking around the kitchen cooking with the baby in one arm.

Life is good!

Cheers,
Tim.

9:07 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Kids are like the ultimate pets.
They learn tricks:
You can teach a dog to sit, you can teach your kid to mow the lawn, and do the dishes.

They look up to you, just like pets, they're cute, just like pets, they're funny just like pets, and you get to discipline them.

Besides, I can't imagine a future without more people just like me.

Justin

9:40 PM  
Blogger Pandax said...

The skimpy, slutty clothing that the young gals wear gets old at some point. Don't you think?

Good observation Noumenon, is the mom thing really about babies? Could it be some Oedipal complex influencing their attraction? Also, I couldn't help notice they were pointing out "young" moms.

But seriously, it's promising to hear that there are men who think positively about women and children.

9:15 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Moms are WAY more interesting than babies. Babies are definitely cute, and I suspect they engage in some kind of pheremonal warfare that makes them hard to resist. But the moms and the pre-moms are far more compelling.

My two sons actually got far more interesting as they got older. I'll miss them when they're gone in just a few years. There ARE downsides, though: it's hard to enjoy flirting with a girl who is telling you how hot your son is...and even worse is when he shows up at your favorite pub and HIS TEAM BEATS YOURS AT TRIVIA....grrrrr!

(I don't think my wife would let him play if there was a "porn" prize...)

9:27 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Who are these so called Lovers of Young Mothers??? I need proof. I'm one of those young-ish moms and I'll be damned if They have approached me at the park. IF someone does approach me I'm alone or with girlfriends, never is she with me. And the conversation usually ends when I say I've got a 4 year old. There is generally a blank stare, some head nodding and then an uncomfortable 3 - 8 second silence. At which point, they ususally mumble something to rid themselves of the situation and walk away.
There is a misconception that young single moms want a baby-daddy which is completely unfounded. I can't speak for all, but maybe, just maybe, we want to use them for a movie and sex? They don't know and They never stick around long to find out.

deb

12:34 PM  
Blogger Megan said...

Um, that was three of my male friends, ages 32-36(?). One is married, so I think he can arrange to be with a young mom when they're ready. One desperately wants to get married and knock her up, and is sleeping around until he finds her. And the last, I think, would rather date someone that age without kids. I was just proud of him for not sleeping with twenty-two year olds anymore.

I don't know why they aren't hitting on you. They're scoping.

1:21 PM  
Blogger Dubin said...

I am quite sure that's true for all people, including the men ones.

5:42 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Big difference between being attracted and making a move!

This is especially true of us happily married guys...there are plenty of women out there that could get the juices flowing, but not really any practical use for them!

But even for a single guy, a married woman can't be taken as lightly as a single one...not that the single ones can be taken all that lightly. Even if she SAYS she only wants a movie and sex, he would still feel like a beast if she wasn't being honest with him or even herself.

7:03 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I'm hitting that point. I'm not sure whether to be proud, disappointed, neither, both...

1:31 PM  

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